The
Power of Habit
Charles Duhigg
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General Overview:
General Overview:
“The Power of Habit,” by
Charles Duhigg helps us understand why we do what we do. He makes us aware that
the habit is a three step loop. The first step in the process is the
cue. It tells the brain what habit to use. Next, is the routine that is either
physical or emotional. The last step is the reward which is when the brain
determines if this habit loop is worth remembering. The book gives many
examples and explanations that are worth the read. They teach readers that in order
to change a habit, we must change the routine first. This is a non-fictional
book that gives us a deeper understanding of how habits work and can transform
our lives.
The book is broken down into
three parts. Part one is the habits of individuals and talks about the habit
loop I previously mentioned. It also talks about creating habits and how to
change habits. Part two is habits of successful organizations. This gave
different examples from personal experience. Part three talked about habit of societies.
This mainly helps readers recognize that we are responsible for our habits and
how they can affect our personal lives. I personally believe this book helps
you realize that you are in control of your life and your decisions. It made me
realize that I have to make the changes I want to see.
Favorite Part:
I really enjoyed many parts of this book. It was very easy and
interesting to read. My favorite part of this book was actually one of the
examples of how to change a habit. It proves that you must believe in something
if you want to make a change. They told a story about an alcoholic named John.
When the woman he was having an affair with ended it, he continuously drank
throughout the workday, went and got his children from school, and drove into a
stop sign. His son broke his arm and John decided to go get help. After about
two years of being sober, he got some bad news about his mom having cancer. The
news had led to him drinking. Eventually, his wife moved out and he got introduced
to coke. When he went to go get his kids from school again, he got into another
accident that would have killed his son if he was in the car. He got charged
with a DUI. He began to get help again and was taught that he needs to admit to
being powerless in order to change. Although he did not believe in God, he
began to believe in a higher power. Now when he wakes up and feels like he may
relapse, he calls his sponsor. They talk about life and things that are not
related to drinking. He learned that replacing the habit is what had helped
him. John learned to replace alcohol and coke with socialization. Talking to
his sponsor and believing in himself and a higher power is what made a
difference in his life. I believe that after reading this, changing his routine
saved him. From class, I learned that when you are unable to control your actions,
the habits you have can negatively affect your life, as they did in John’s case
before he got the help he needed.
Relation to Class:
This related to class because I learned that he was craving his
addiction. It was an overwhelming, uncontrollable urge to drink. He became
dependent on the way alcohol made him feel when he received bad news. I think
this book also related to self-control. Like I mentioned from my favorite part,
when you are unable to control your actions, the habits you have can negatively
affect your life. It is important to switch out your negative behaviors with
positive ones. Craving the reward form the habits was something I related back
to our lecture notes as well.
Extension:
I enjoyed this book because it taught me how to change my own
habits. I have always wanted to look and feel better about myself. Instead of
going to the gym and eating better, I would just complain and expect something
to change. This book has given me a better outlook. The book talked about small
wins making you feel more motivated to continue your habit. Now, instead of wasting
time complaining, I go to the gym or go for a run. Doing this, feels like an
accomplishment to me. I changed my routine to benefit myself and my goals. My
end goal was always to look and feel better. Although complaining never got me
to my goal, I was expecting to look better somehow. I attempted to draw out a
plan like the examples in the book.
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