An example, if going to the gym is something one loathes then after a workout it would be keen to watch a favorite show (not eat junk food, that's counterproductive) or do something that they truly enjoy. The simple act of doing something one enjoys following a workout (assuming this is something they do not particularly enjoy) helps condition the person to continue working out and push through the difficulty of the task, for there is a reward not far ahead.
Dani Ariely, a psychologist, suffered serious burns in his youth. During part of his recovery there were complications and he was required to medicate himself. He used this simple idea of rewarding himself after this painful medication with remarkable success. This video should be able to motivate almost anyone to face down their difficulties: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbEa1P4sqd8
In life there will always be hard tasks and difficult work to be done, especially if one sets a high standard for them self. Being self-aware and knowing that there will inevitably be times when giving up seems like the best option using simple "tools" to prepare for such scenarios will go a long way in helping you achieve the things you want in life.
Keeping motivated is hard but not impossible.
ReplyDeleteI like your point about watching a good tv show after the gym, instead of eating junk food. Changing your reward is a good idea so it isn't as detrimental. The video on Dani Ariely also seems interesting, I'll check it out.
ReplyDeleteMotivation is difficult to maintain but what isn't? I feel like life is in itself hard and very intellectually difficult, so the more we strive to accomplish the impossible, the more inspirational we will feel. I agreed with you as well as Samra Jarral - great job!
ReplyDeleteMotivation is something I constantly struggle with. It is the big black monkey on my back. Most nights I go to sleep thinking of what needs to be done and I end up dream about getting it done, but as soon as I wake up...? *POOF* All that brain energy I spent on amping myself up to do something is completely gone. I don't get motivated until the last possible minute. I do find it interesting how you mentioned rewarding yourself after a daunting task can potentially condition you to do it more. I think I may try that to see if that makes a difference for me. Good post!
ReplyDelete