Tuesday, July 29, 2014
Reproduction/Attraction
Being attracted to your partner physically for most people is very important, I believe physical attractiveness is an important part of a relationship since you were attracted to what your partner looks like at first sight. t Since there may be a mutual physical connection then they can work their way of getting to know each other. I believe it is very important to know what we are looking for when looking for a partner, making sure that they have the characteristics that make them desirable to us. As time goes by I think many things can change, depending on how each person's expectations change. It is hard for some people to maintain a "good" relationship, no relationship is perfect. There are ups and downs but it is really up to the each person to change that if they are both willing to stay together. Many things can come in between and unfortunately for some people they decide to brake up.
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I always say I'm shallow, but I don't necessarily think that is true. It is not a crime to want to date someone you are attracted to. It's natural, and everyone feels that way just not everyone is attracted to the same type of people. If you are not attracted to your partner you will not have that great as a sequel experience with them as you could, and that is very important in a healthy relationship. Of course there are many other factors that come into play in choosing a mate but attraction is and always will be important.
ReplyDeleteI think it important how you mentioned that not every relationship is perfect. Many people will have a single problem in their relationship which causes them to panic and break up rather than trying to work things out. Every relationship has problems and I think many people tend to forget this. In today's society, it almost seems like it is easier to just break up and forget about it rather than face the problem. Does anyone else see this as a current problem as well?
ReplyDeleteWhat stood out in your post is when you say that it's important to know what we are looking for when looking for a partner, because I 100% agree. If we go into relationships without knowing what we want, are they really even worth it? As low as this may sound, I think that it's important to be attracted to the person but connecting with someone on an emotional level as well is also what makes relationships last. The more you know about yourself and what you are looking for in someone else, the easier it is to make things work out. Feelings change and so do people, but as long as two people are willing to better themselves and grow together as well as individuals, then I think its a win win for both people. After all, attraction is usually the first thing that we notice in another human being.
ReplyDeleteI believe that is important to be attracted to your partner in both a physical and emotional way. I don't see it as being shallow to want a partner that one is attracted to physically. I also agree with you that before getting into a relationship, it is important for an individual to understand what he or she wants in a partner. Knowing what desirable characteristics to look for in a partner definitely narrows down the search for he or she. I also believe Mackenzie's statement to be true; many people are willing to completely drop a relationship if it means that they do not have to deal with the underlying issues; this can apply to so many other aspects of life as well. Overall, working as a team is vital to the success of a relationship. It is important to communicate and work on issues that one person may have with the other before the situation gets out of control.
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